I would love to share with you guys about something today. Few days back I was pondering about life. Well everyone definitely would have done that at some point in their life. But this time, it was something different. I couldn't help thinking about how life can change each minute, each second day by day.
Everytime I'm on bed, I think. When I'm in my shower, I keep thinking. When I eat, when I walk from my car, almost most of the time I was thinking. And it just doesn't seem to stop.
It was bothering me a lot. So I decided to divert my mind by watching movies all the time as I don't want to keep thinking about life. After all, I just like to lay back, enjoy each moment and take it easy.
However, what came to my realisation was I was not laying back and enjoying each moment and taking everything easy. I had pending task to do, I have my exercise routine that I was not carrying out, I just missed out an opportunity of applying a job,I have hurt people that love me. All these things were going around me.
All of this actually bothers me, and I mean A LOT!!
So how can I say I am relaxed, unwind and taking it one at a time, right??
How do I make it right? Can i actually make it right?
After going through a lot of pondering and wondering and thinking,hmm, I found that I need both. I need help from others and also from my own self.
The catch is this though, when we realise that we can help ourselves first, then you will be a person who knows where you are.
It defines that you know your needs, your limitations, your strength, your ability and your passion, and you take charge of yourself to bring the best out of you.You just don't settle.
However, when we need help from others, we always go to our loved ones right, like our parents, our spouse, best friends or even cousins. Whoever you feel comfortable sharing and asking for help knowing that they won't judge you.
After all, that's what we as humans need right. We do not want anyone to judge us when we ask for approval of them. That is why we need to keep our circle positive and loving.
Keeping people who really matters in your life shows that you know your worth and the people surrounding you celebrates you for you!
All this happens when you know where you are.
You might be at the top of your life right now. Having a luxury house, car, clothing and even having the best people all around you. That is very good as you have achieved what most people long for. However, are you really contented with what you have?
You might be in the middle stage of your life. Having minimum income and a middle class lifestyle with your kids and wife. Well who says that's pathetic?? As long as you know where you are, why let others bring you down, because deep inside you know what you have and you are happy with it.
Or you might even be a low income person with not much to do. But deep inside you know that each day you live, you live at the very best even though you can't afford much.
I have seen poor people being much more happy in life compared to the rich ones.
Sometimes knowing where we are is important. In fact, it opens your eyes to see the world somehow differently. If you know that you are not at the top of your life, you can always create a shift by implementing changes.
However, knowing your self worth and being happy with it, that is something you can't buy with money.
It's the realisation of knowing where we are that is crucial. It helps define us.
It makes us less judgemental and helps us actually to embrace what we have just because we know where we are. =)
Let's end the week strong peeps and take good care of yourself wherever you are.
PS: Have you told your loved ones that you love them so much? If not please do so, it will definitely brighten up their day and infact brighten up yours too... Because we only have so much time in this world and so little people to let into our lives...
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