EVERYTHING YOU EVER WANTED IS ON THE OTHER SIDE OF THE FEAR.

Welcome to my thoughts corner Dream Catchers. I'm continuing from my previous post about FEAR.

My previous post can be read from the link below:

http://mrveronica.blogspot.my/2017/05/did-you-know-that-fear-is-false.html

Did you know that your thoughts are the main reason fear comes? It took me an incident to actually realize about this. I am an entrepreneur in an online marketplace globally. So as you see I have huge responsibilities in growing my company into a profitable one.

One day as my coach approached me, he said that in the next meeting I will be presenting the business marketing plan to the new prospects. My Gosh!!!! The fear that I had was unbelievable.

I was preparing a lot of stuffs in my head and doing my presentations in front of a mirror. The fear was so real and made me to be so nervous till I went up the stage. But guess what? The moment I was on stage, I became a whole different person. I was comfortable and confident of myself. Of course, the first five minutes was a little awkward as I was engaging with the crowd. But then momentum picked up and I was on a roll.

The moral of the story is, JUST DO IT. Because at the end of the day you will be regretting the chances that you did not take as compared to the ones you take.

It's never about the outcome at all. It was just about the transition from the stage of fear to outcome of overcoming the fear.


Many incidents can take place in our lives. In fact, many life happenings can take place daily and having 7 billion people means having 7 billion fears in different situations. Imagine that!

Now do you really think everyone is still living in fear or at some point they overcome it?


I will continue my thoughts in the next post. Till then would love to hear your comments and thoughts.

Lots of love,
Veronica

DID YOU KNOW THAT FEAR IS FALSE EVIDENCE APPEARING REAL?

Now how does this work? F.E.A.R

F: False. False is something that is not right.

E: Evidence. Evidence is the available body of facts or information indicating whether a believe or          proposition is true or valid.

A: Appear. Appear is coming into sight.

R: Real.Real is existing.

Can you see how deep does each word means? False shows the ultimate truth that something is not right at all. 

Evidence is something that all humankind request when they need to put in their believe into something or someone. It's the evidence that makes the trust factor to grow. Nevertheless, we as humans have tendency to believe in false evidence as we assume that all evidence are true.

This was probably the reason Sherlock Holmes made huge blockbuster. He always find evidence to solve every mystery. That made the whole movie interesting. But guess what? It doesn't work the same way all the time in reality!!

Every legend has a beginning. Little did we know that the beginning must have started with fear for them.

Next is appear. We are so convinced of what appears in front of us. If it is something that we like, we are very much likely to take it as it is. However if it is not appealing to us, we become less interested of it and tend to overlook what seems to be behind it.

COMMON HUMAN BEHAVIOR 

And last but not least is real. Real is something that is in front of us. If we do not take things as it is we are not categorized as human beings. Superstitious.

GOOD NEWS 

EVERYTHING YOU HAVE EVER WANTED IS ON THE OTHER SIDE OF FEAR

I will be writing up more about this on my next blog. Till then, Love Veronica.

My Perfect Life

What does perfect meant to you? Is it a combination of having the lifestyle you want?

A BMW 5 series with a landed property worth 5 million, a tall handsome husband or a beautiful homely wife with perfect 2 adorable kids. Does that sound perfect to you?

Every now and then we have fantasies of what we want in life.

The perfect view with perfect drink beside. #awesomeness

                                             But you and me know the truth and reality. 

The reality is we get stuck at life. Things don't happen as we want. Salary will never be enough for our expenses. The worst part is we don't find the right partner in life. Sad but reality.

Let's not be entangled with the worst cases in life. Because I found a beautiful truth in all these chaotic and selfish life. Realization! Yes, you read it right REALIZATION is POWERFUL!!!!

Without realization of the moments we will miss many optimism things in life. 

Let's start with the small things in life. The very small things. Like a leaf.

Did you realize the leaves around you?

A perfect leaf with a perfect green colour.

Not only that, we have the skies above us that is blue in colour. Have you realized how blue it is?

Blue sky above the beautiful lake. 

Ever wondered why God created it blue? 

Realization of all this small things will bring us far in life. All God's creation are to be marveled.

                There us a saying that when you are grateful for small things around you, you will be rewarded with bigger things and especially you will start to realize that life is indeed perfect.

In the end, what we practice being grateful for every single day will be the most powerful ritual to your perfect life. It's never about the money or the vacation or the luxurious house. It's always about attracting the perfect life. Never about pursuing perfect life.

                  That is all from the humble me, Veronica Shamini who leads the perfect life with my loved ones. You make it perfect by attracting perfectness into life.

Till I see you again in my next blog.

Love,

Veronica